On PCVR, using the quest link it takes 45ish seconds before any menu opens, and then .2 seconds to login. After the homeworld loads, if there's a video player it takes around 4-8 minutes before the video loads.
On quest standalone, everything is very fast to load, and works like I would expect.
This issue is present on my laptop and my desktop using meta quest link, but is not present when using the headset in quest standalone.
I have scoured about 30 different threads looking for solutions, some reinstalling vrchat, some doing cache clearing, opening ports in firewalls. The only thing I haven't done is reinstall windows.
I'm showing up here because I'm about to sell my Quest 3 and quit VRchat.